Young guy dating old chicks
“As a dude, I’m told that I’m supposed to date girls my own age and take care of them, pay for dinner, and so on.But for that period of time, the roles were reversed. And it felt great—who doesn’t want to be taken care of?Talking to many women like her, it’s intriguing how many look back on past relationships where they let good men get away because they weren’t ready.American journalist Kate Bolick wrote recently in The Atlantic about breaking off her three-year relationship with a man she described as ”intelligent, good-looking, loyal and kind”. SOURCE: Why Women Lose the Dating Game I see a poetic yet depressing symmetry in this: the women who rejected the introverted, budding alpha in their 20s now seek them in their 30s—but can’t have them because they’re dating younger, more attractive versions of themselves. Courtship really is a harsh petri dish of evolutionary psychology.She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said.Now he’s in his mid 40s, and married with a kid, and remembers that relationship as critical to making him the man he is now.A slightly more mature lady has friends—but she sure as shit doesn’t need their permission to live her life.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.
So, if you’re 35 and dating a 37 year old, yeah, not a cougar.
But if you’re 35 and dating a 22 year old, ok, you might qualify.
So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money.
A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it.